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- Date: 25 Sep 2004 16:15:05 -0000
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----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Awesome Confidence Newsletter ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- http://www.confidenceworld.com ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Saturday, September 25, 2004 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hi Friend, I hope you are keeping well? Don't forget, if you have any confidence related success stories to tell of how you have overcome a difficulty or if you are just feeling a lot more confident these days - I'd love to hear from you. Just drop me a line! Take care until next time! ;-) Live, Love and Laugh Sean ------------------------------------------------------- IN THIS ISSUE ************* => How to handle criticism the BUDDHA WAY! => The habits of a winner - Stuart Goldsmith => Quotes => How to get what you want in life - Online Course => The Ultimate Weight Loss Ebook -------------------------------------------------------- Buddha on Handling Criticism A man met him on the street one day and began to call him mean and ugly names. Buddha listened quietly and thoughtfully until the man ran out of epithets, and had to pause for breath. "If you offer something to a man and he refuses it, to whom does it belong?" asked Buddha. The spiteful man replied, "It belongs, I suppose, to the one who offered it." Then Buddha said, "The abuse and vile names you offer me, I refuse to accept." The man turned and walked away." -------------------------------------------------------- The Habits Of A Winner - By Stuart Goldsmith You need to develop the habits of a winner. You want to enjoy today, but have an even better tomorrow waiting for you. To do this you must model yourself on winners - people who have achieved great things in their lives. I am talking here about 'winners' and 'losers' but I do not mean the term 'loser' in the usual derogatory sense. By a 'loser' I mean someone who, by their own definition of winning and losing, is falling well short of where they want to be. By a 'winner' I mean someone who, by their own definition of winning and losing, is pulling ahead of the game and achieving that which they set out to achieve. This is how a winner operates: 1. They are brave. Like all human beings they feel fear, but have mastered it and are able to rise above it. Whilst they acknowledge that there are frightening people and places in the world, in general they view the world as a benevolent place, full of great opportunities and wonderful people. This is a vital principle. Winners view the world as mainly benevolent with some bad bits. Losers see the world as mainly malevolent with some good bits. 2. They are good visualizers. They have the ability to imagine the future, often in glorious Technicolor detail. They have high self-esteem, and know that they are worth more than they have at present. Life to them is an exciting adventure to be lived to the full. In contrast, losers view life as a terrible chore to be somehow 'got through' with as little pain as possible. 3. They are intelligent, rational and logical. If they have a dream of the future, they know the secret technique for making this happen. Today's dreams are tomorrow's realities. They know that large projects cannot be tackled by finite human minds unless they are broken down into manageable, bite-sized pieces. They are able to work backwards from a future dream to the present day, and to list the logical steps required to make that dream come true. 4. Having written down the steps required to achieve their goals, they know what is required next. Action. Up until this point, all of their plans amount to little more than ethereal hot air. It is action which grounds the circuit and allows the current to flow. They know that the journey will be long and hard. Any worthwhile dream will involve hard work, concentrated effort and some suffering to attain. They need one more quality. Discipline. This keeps them going during setbacks, when the list seems too long, and when others heap mirth and derision upon their efforts. Five Tips to Turbo-Charge Your Dream ----------------------------------------- 1. Dream of a brighter tomorrow. Your yearning power is more important than your earning power. 2. Be rational. Mysticism is your mortal enemy. There are obvious, logical steps between here and your dreams. Write them down in bite-sized chunks and follow them like a route map. 3. Act. All is dust without action. Action is the key. 4. Be disciplined. Life is tough. Fight. Others want you to fail. Ignore them. The world is against you - go your own way. People will spout rubbish - ignore it. 5. Start today. Procrastination is the thief of time. Winners start right now. Losers chatter to themselves that they will start 'one day real soon.' It never happens. Article excerpted from Stuart Goldsmith's latest book, "7 Secrets Of The Millionaires". Stuart is a British multi-millionaire author and lecturer. He created a $16 million fortune starting from a position of heavy debt, and has taught thousands of others how to get seriously wealthy. Discover how his breakthrough power strategies can help YOU achieve your specific goals/dreams FAST... http://www.innercirclesecrets.com ************************************************************ Increase your sales by making your website talk! Check out: http://members.audiogenerator.com/specialinfo.asp?x=49858 I am using at it www.searchengineranking-no1.com ************************************************************ QUOTES *********** "Winners are those people who make a habit of doing the things losers are uncomfortable doing." - Ed Foreman "It’s always fun to do the impossible." - Walt Disney 'If you think you're too small to make a difference, you haven't been in bed with a mosquito.' - Anita Roddick - -------------------------------------------------------- How To Get What You Want In Life - Online Success Course ********************************************************** “How to get what you want” is a 6 week online course that is designed to provide you with the direction, purpose and drive that you are looking for. Written by Sean McPheat himself, each of the 6 modules includes a number of exercises and assignments that will walk you through the process of first working out what you want from your life and then, how you are going to get it. The course is designed so that you can complete one module per week, receiving each module via email. The course will enable you to stop drifting along in life – instead you will discover what your life is all about and how you can go about to improve it. You only live once so you’d better make the most of the time whilst you are here! “How to get what you want” will be your very own life map of where you are now to where you want to get to. You will soon rediscover those lost ambitions, those dreams that had fallen by the wayside. This is the time to start a fresh. So start right now! Course content: Week 1: Discover what your life is really about Week 2: The goal setting workshop – mapping out what you want in your lifefrom hereon in! Week 3: Fire the gun! – How to take action Week 4: Become a world-class hurdler! How to overcome the obstacles that get in your way. Week 5: How to stay on track with your goals – How to keep motivated Week 6: Creating the life that you truly deserve Click Here for more information: http://www.beingasuccess.com/howtocourse.htm ******************************************************** The Ultimate Weight Loss Ebook ------------------------------------------ Have you been at war with your weight for some time now? If so, then check out this ebook - it's awesome! http://hop.clickbank.net/hop.cgi?mcpheats1/123abc ********************************************************* That's it folks! Have a confident time and take care of yourself! Live, Love and Laugh Sean Sean McPheat www.confidenceworld.com ------------------------------------------------------ "There are only two ways to get to the top of an oak tree. One is to climb the tree, the other is to sit on an acorn and wait." 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