[VE][108] Error Message Feedback - Help!!

I don’t know where to find help on this!  I am trying to embed a sound file
to play automatically when a page opens (no problem) and for the page to
pass validation (serious problem!)  I can’t see what the matter is with my
code:

          <embed src="baptism02.mp3" autostart="true" height="32"
width="32"></embed>
   <bgsound src="baptism02.mp3" loop="1"></bgsound>

But the validation doesn’t like any of it really:

*  Line 59
<http://validator.w3.org/check?uri=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.request.org.uk%2Finfants
%2Fmilestones%2Fbaptism%2Fbelieversbaptism01.htm&charset=%28detect+automatic
ally%29&doctype=%28detect+automatically%29&ss=1> , column 27: there is no
attribute "src"
<embed src="baptism02.mp3" autostart="true" width="50" height="5
*  Line 59
<http://validator.w3.org/check?uri=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.request.org.uk%2Finfants
%2Fmilestones%2Fbaptism%2Fbelieversbaptism01.htm&charset=%28detect+automatic
ally%29&doctype=%28detect+automatically%29&ss=1> , column 53: there is no
attribute "autostart"
<embed src="baptism02.mp3" autostart="true" width="50" height="50"></embed>
*  Line 59
<http://validator.w3.org/check?uri=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.request.org.uk%2Finfants
%2Fmilestones%2Fbaptism%2Fbelieversbaptism01.htm&charset=%28detect+automatic
ally%29&doctype=%28detect+automatically%29&ss=1> , column 66: there is no
attribute "width"
.... <embed src="baptism02.mp3" autostart="true" width="50"
height="50"></embed>
*  Line 59
<http://validator.w3.org/check?uri=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.request.org.uk%2Finfants
%2Fmilestones%2Fbaptism%2Fbelieversbaptism01.htm&charset=%28detect+automatic
ally%29&doctype=%28detect+automatically%29&ss=1> , column 78: there is no
attribute "height"
....p3" autostart="true" width="50" height="50"></embed>
*  Line 59
<http://validator.w3.org/check?uri=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.request.org.uk%2Finfants
%2Fmilestones%2Fbaptism%2Fbelieversbaptism01.htm&charset=%28detect+automatic
ally%29&doctype=%28detect+automatically%29&ss=1> , column 82: element
"embed" undefined
....tostart="true" width="50" height="50"></embed>
*  Line 60
<http://validator.w3.org/check?uri=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.request.org.uk%2Finfants
%2Fmilestones%2Fbaptism%2Fbelieversbaptism01.htm&charset=%28detect+automatic
ally%29&doctype=%28detect+automatically%29&ss=1> , column 16: there is no
attribute "src"
<bgsound src="baptism02.mp3" loop="1"></bgsound>
*  Line 60
<http://validator.w3.org/check?uri=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.request.org.uk%2Finfants
%2Fmilestones%2Fbaptism%2Fbelieversbaptism01.htm&charset=%28detect+automatic
ally%29&doctype=%28detect+automatically%29&ss=1> , column 37: there is no
attribute "loop"
<bgsound src="baptism02.mp3" loop="1"></bgsound>
*  Line 60
<http://validator.w3.org/check?uri=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.request.org.uk%2Finfants
%2Fmilestones%2Fbaptism%2Fbelieversbaptism01.htm&charset=%28detect+automatic
ally%29&doctype=%28detect+automatically%29&ss=1> , column 40: element
"bgsound" undefined
<bgsound src="baptism02.mp3" loop="1"></bgsound>

  The page is XHTML transitional.  If you are able to give me
any help or advice on this I shall be eternally grateful!!
  The page is online @
http://www.request.org.uk/infants/milestones/baptism/believersbaptism01.htm