I agree it’s not an insult too, and almost replied immediately as such, but decided not to at the time.
For the record, the origin of “embrace, extend, extinguish” is a quote from the United Stages Dept of Justice wrt Microsoft employees anticompetitive behavior in the 90s in the realm of standards and multimedia/hypermedia.
It is EXTREMELY relevant here without being an insult.
Especially from someone who worked at MS around the time period of the DOJ investigation,
(Conscious or not),
portraying the mere quote it as an insult seemed to me like an example of
Let me respectfully disagree with Evan. The behavior of quoting the US DOJ “Embrace, Extend, Extinguish” at relevant times (pretty much always in a standards group) *is acceptable*. How Sean did it was not objectively an insult, annd instead occurred to me and others as a useful contribution, especially from a someone coming from Yale Privacy Lab. Anticompetitive behavior is often bad for end-user privacy and safety especially if marginalized groups.
Finally, since Evan invoked CEPC, I want to point out that the CEPC specifically talks about insulting specific persons, and that’s not at all what happened here. Previously another member had floated some CEPC threats to get their way, and I recall nighpool saying that was not helpful and CEPC concerns are best handled directly with the Chair so as not to silence legitimate discussion and constructive disagreement. Evan, please keep that in mind next time you invoke “CEPC”.
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On Dec 21, 2023, at 12:43 PM, Jon Pincus <jon@achangeiscoming.net> wrote:

I agree with hellekin. "Embrace,
extend, extinguish" isn't an insult, it's a pithy description of
well-known strategy for corporations to try to exploit open
standards. What (if anything) the group developing the standards
can do to reduce the risks of this happening to ActivityPub --
whether or not it's what Meta's intentionally trying to do here --
is a valid topic for a community group that's developing
standards.
Also, even if it's not Meta's intent,
it's still a potential outcome; in
Embrace,
Extend, and Exploit: Meta’s plan for ActivityPub, Mastodon and
the fediverse I talk about how Mastodon EEE'ed OStatus even
though they didn't start out trying to do that. As you can tell
from the title, I don't think Meta's trying to EEE ... but others
do, and it's still a risk even if it's not their goal, so it's not
insulting the integrity of anybody working on the standards to say
that they should discusswhat (if anything) to do in light of the
concerns and risk.
jon
On
12/16/23 06:54, Evan Prodromou wrote:
This list is for the W3C community group
developing the standards for an open social web. We follow the
Positive Work Environment rules of the W3C.
https://www.w3.org/Consortium/cepc/
This remark is not acceptable. You're insulting our member from
Meta; you're also insulting the integrity of everyone else
working on the ActivityPub standards, here and elsewhere.
In standards development, we collaborate on the specifications
and compete on implementation. Rivalries stop at the door.
Evan
On 2023-12-15 1:33 p.m., O'Brien, Sean wrote:
Embrace, extend, extinguish.
I'm sorry Evan, but I cannot see this statement as an insult. I
read it as a legitimate political concern that many share, and
that follows a consistent pattern that we've witnessed many times
across various successful internet protocols. Dismissing this
concern as an insult is not going to help address the problem.
If this mailing list is not willing to discuss politics, the
Fediverse is. The SocialHub also welcomes political concerns.
I think that your final sentence, as much as it may sound fair, is
politically immature, not to say entirely naive. The good company
of gentlemen never prevented power relations at play. This is
probably why there is a W3C sponsored list, and a grassroots
movement. You won't be able to silence the grassroots.
Developers make their own choices when it comes to whom they want
to federate with, and maybe it's time to discuss what it means to
live in a digital world that is not unique and imposed from above
by self-appointed asymmetric powers. The rough consensus that
brought the running code powering ActivityPub today came from
refusing the terms of service of surveillance capitalists such as
the main sponsors of W3C, including Meta -- this is not an insult,
simply a state of fact. The fact such companies now embrace the
standards mean the standards did good so far to offer a solid
alternative to their prying services: it does not mean that we
have solved the underlying political struggle for freedom from
interference for online communication.
On the matter of interoperability, interconnection, and consent,
petites singularités published a short statement a couple of years
ago, in anticipation to this very moment.
https://public.zoethical.org/pub/what-is-at-stake-with-interoperability
==
hk